My name is David, and I’m a connectorholic.

You might know that introducing people to each other is a hobby of mine, and even a pastime, but you might not realize that I find it addictive.

I get a little too eager to introduce two people who can create that 1+1=3 magic together.

Those opportunities happen often enough, but in the past, they were so labor-intensive that I couldn’t make as many intros as I wanted to.

That’s because the more intros you make, the more you wind up valuing your network, and the more seriously you treat every connection request.

I prefer the double opt-in intro, so that the recipient and the sender agree to connect beforehand. But doing so requires a lot of customized messaging and follow-through. If I really want to get Martin in front of Marie, I have to make it clear to Marie why she has to talk to them.

There are exceptions. If Marie tells me to introduce her to a web designer and Martin is the most talented such freelancer I know, voilà. Match made. Maybe in heaven. Or at least in Gmail.

But normally, it’s more of a slog. A worthwhile slog. Because if Martin lands Marie as a client, it could change their year. And Marie will value my recommendation even more next time. And it unleashes all kind of beautiful magic making this Pale Blue Dot a wee bit smaller.

I reached a connector milestone last month that I’m especially proud of, so naturally, I have to share it.

I made my 500th introduction on Bridge, the app where I’m quoted on their homepage as saying it’s my favorite app of the year. That’s true regardless of the year; I started using it thanks to a tip from Paul Sethi back in 2019.

The crux of Bridge is a simple premise that no one else has done so elegantly. You sync your contacts (just once), pick the people you want to connect, say if it’s forwardable (double opt-in) or a fast intro (instant), and then let ‘er rip.

If Martin requests the intro to Marie, Martin then gets an email saying I want to introduce them to her and they should share why. Once he does so and adds a brief bio, I get an alert to send it on. I can then customize it however much I want.

Sometimes, my note to the recipient it’s very tempered, basically saying “Martin asked for an intro so I’m passing it along.” Sometimes it’s more glowing, saying something like, “Martin is God’s gift to web design, and you need to hire them.”

It always feels like a Donnie Brasco moment:

“When I introduce you, I’m gonna say, ‘This is a friend of mine.’ That means you’re a connected guy. Now if I said instead, ‘This is a friend of ours,’ that would mean you’re a made guy. Capiche?”

I love those intros when I’m introducing a friend of ours.

But not everyone’s a friend of ours.

It’s okay to be a friend of mine though. It’ll still get you in the door.

I just connected a friend of mine this week that I wasn’t sure the recipient would go for. Sometimes, you just have to ask.

There’s a lot more to Bridge, but this isn’t a pitch for them, and I’ve never been an advisor or investor there. If you’ve used anything remotely as useful for connecting others, I’d love to hear about it.

If you want to try out Bridge, you can request an invite to collaborate with me.

The hardest part about an app like Bridge is the hardest part about networking in general.

If someone tells me they want to connect with agency people interested in omnichannel ad tech platforms, or VCs investing in series A fin tech startups, or brand-side marketers who can speak about DEI initiatives, I’d be hard-pressed to figure out who to suggest. I’d have to have detailed notes on such people, or they’d need detailed LinkedIn profiles, or I would have had to see something about them pop up recently.

I’m confident that over time, machine learning will take care of that. If I could even just categorize my connections by categories like brand, agency, ad tech, VC, journalist, analyst, etc, that’d be the next quantum leap forward for a connector like me. And for probably quite a few of you readers too.

If you see anyone making that happen, I’d like to know. I’d do practically anything to get into that alpha or beta.

Meanwhile, let’s connect more meaningfully. If we have any kind of relationship at all, mi network es su network. Let’s make the most of it.

It’s a fitting time to give a preview of another way I want to make the most of networking.

I get a lot of requests to recommend talent for jobs and gigs. And a lot of the members of Serial Marketers would be the right fits. But as noted above, I don’t usually know or remember who these people are.

Hence, a new feature for the community: Ask & Answer.

Create a profile if you’re a service provider. Fill out a request if you’re seeking a service or candidate. Get some relevant recommendations.

That’s it.

I’d love it if you could fill out a service provider profile, if that’s relevant to you. And as you have some requests, share them. Some great people are starting to sign up, and I’d love to kick the tires to make matches happen more often.

Instead of building Bridge, I hope to build thousands of those little bridges.

Ready to cross?



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  • Candidate: Featured marketing and sales jobs
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  • Growth Collective: Apply to join this network of notable freelance marketers
  • Hearty: Get recommended by peers and be discovered
  • Hue: Amplifying voices of people in color working in marketing
  • Lunch Club: Match 1:1 around predetermined goals with accomplished professionals (free)
  • NYC Ad Jobs & Networking: A popular Facebook group
  • #OpenToWork: There’s a channel in Serial Marketers where you can share what you’re looking for
  • Pocit: A platform connecting people of color with jobs in the tech industry
  • Questions to Ask for a Marketing Role: What questions should you ask when starting a new marketing role or job?
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