Acting. Parenting. Tweeting.

We’re going to talk about all three today because they relate.

I was talking to my actor friend, Lindsay, who’s made an appearance in these columns before. I was telling her how excited my eight-year-old daughter was when she found a yoga blanket gathering dust in my entertainment console drawer and asked if we could spread it on the couch.

Sure, I told my daughter. Not only did she love the look of it (I could go either way), but for the next several days, she remarked to me how much more comfortable the couch is (she’s probably right).

This was a small win for her, but a meaningful one. And I remarked to Lindsay how easy it is as a parent to offer little ways for kids to take control of their surroundings.

I then corrected myself, adding that if you can help anyone take control over their surroundings, it’s so empowering, and it’s one of the most reliable ways to improve someone’s situation.

She had two related examples to share.

First, she was a teacher for several years, with much of that in a tough district. She told me how letting students choose which book they’d read from among a few options made them so much more excited about the material. A choice as simple (and yet profound) as Animal Farm vs. Lord of the Flies made students far more invested in the material.

She said there has to be structure though. You can’t just let students choose any book and take a vote. The structure is critical.

She further related that to acting, and how the best acting comes from that mix of “freedom and structure.” She said it’s true for all forms of acting — including the art of clown.

As we discussed this, there was one example that felt especially glaring given the timing: Twitter.

We were chatting Monday, hours after Elon Musk flipped the bird over to his portfolio.

Twitter was social media’s first real foray into balancing freedom and structure, initially focusing on the structure of 140-character text posts.

As the structure expanded into images, recorded videos, links with previews, live streams, threads, and double-length text posts, the constraints on freedom became even more important. It was increasingly dangerous to allow anyone the freedom to post whatever they wanted. Misinformation doesn’t just change elections or policies; it can cost people their lives.

If Russia could have flooded Twitter with misinformation in February and there were no repercussions for doing so, most of the world would have assumed that Ukraine (with its Jewish president) is really overrun by Nazis who were waging an ethnic cleansing campaign against Russians. Since truthfulness apparently has become more important on Twitter, it’s been possible to call out Russia’s lies, view all the atrocities Russia is committing against Ukrainian civilians, and hear directly from the Ukrainian people.

As outmatched as Russia has been by Ukraine’s military, a war fought by disinformation would have worked far better to Russia’s advantage and at least could have kept some of Ukraine’s allies on the fence by suppressing pro-Ukraine popular opinion. An information war, however, works entirely in Ukraine’s favor.

That brings us to Twitter today. Maybe the Ukraine of 2023 or 2030 doesn’t need to worry. Musk’s support for Ukraine may have given it some commanding advantages. Musk can take sides and save lives, and that’s true with his push for products powered by renewable energy sources.

What will be most challenging for Musk though is to balance freedom and structure with Twitter. The classic Spider-Man line comes to mind: “With great freedom comes great responsibility.”

Can Musk balance that? Can anyone? Twitter’s trajectory shows many signs of improving on that quest over the years, and even when it has failed, it seemed that its management valued the tradeoffs inherent to providing the structure for freedom. Neither structure nor freedom is an absolute, and Twitter at its worst and best has been a gift for those fascinated by that balance.

I’ll remain on Twitter to watch, learn, and participate. I don’t know where else I’d go. As I joked (on Twitter), if MacKenzie Scott (the ultra-altruistic philanthropist also known as the former Mrs. Bezos) buys or launches a social platform, I’ll spend my time there, but I don’t expect to ‘gram, ‘tok, pin, or snap any more or less with Musk owning Twitter. I expect I will have to block or mute Twitter accounts more often though. Right now, just about the only thing I block are people sharing Wordle scores (really).

Will Musk with his brand of freedom collide with Twitter’s brand of structure? Can they work together? Will Musk discover that there is no freedom without responsibility? Will Musk’s detractors be surprised by his vision for freedom and structure coexisting?

I don’t know. But I’ll be following the tweets.



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